
Break the Meltdown Cycle
Build Calm, Together
Calm-first scripts, state-based supports, and simple routines that work—even on low-capacity days.
Instant download • Printable & Fillable • Neurodiversity-affirming • Charged in CAD. ≈ $15 USD
The Benefits
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Fewer escalations and faster recovery
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More cooperation. Less nagging and yelling.
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A repeatable plan so tomorrow is easier than today
What’s Getting in the Way
Meltdowns turn into power struggles, and everyone is exhausted
You’re repeating yourself, nothing sticks, and it all feels the same
You don’t need a textbook; you need pratical tool and clear steps for hard moments
The Co-Regulation Difference
Regulation comes before reasoning
Co-regulation helps the nervous system feel safe.
Safety first → skills + learning follow
What’s Inside
Immediate Tools — 20+ calm-first scripts, quick body-based resets, and environment tweaks.
Tailored Strategies — Supports by fight/flight/freeze/fawn, spoon/energy check-ins, flexible routines.
Bigger-Picture Support — Repair guides, strength-based advocacy tips, one-page quick card for fridge/phone.
Why Connection Beats Control
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Kids don’t learn regulation from punishment; they learn it with a calm, safe adult.
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Co-regulation tells the nervous system, “you’re safe,” so logic and learning can come happen.
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Replace fear-based compliance with respectful cooperation—so everyone can breathe again.
How It Works
Download & skim the Quick Start
Open the PDF and note where to find: state cues (fight/flight/freeze/fawn), Reminder Cards, Mindset Check-In, and the Co-Regulation Flowchart.In the moment (≈ 60 seconds)
Notice the state → pick 1 script + 1 body reset → make 1 small environment tweak (lights down, noise down). Stay close, steady voice. (Use the state pages + quick card.)After (repair & reset)
When calm returns, use the debrief prompts to reconnect and plan one small change for next time. Place a Reminder Card where you’ll see it.Review to keep it relevant
End of day, review: note what worked, swap what didn’t, and update your go-to plan for tomorrow.
(The Flowchart makes this easy.)
Instant download • Printable & Fillable • Neurodiversity-affirming • Charged in CAD. ≈ $15 USD
Erin Tee, M.Ed
I'm a neurodiversity educator, advocate, and parent of a twice-exceptional child. I've helped hundreds of parents shift from stress to connection with practical, affirming tools. I know firsthand how overwhelming big emotions can feel, and I created this bundle to make co-regulation easier for you and your child.
FAQs
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All charges are in CAD.
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Instant access via Thinkific + downloadable PDF (keep forever).
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You’ll choose scripts/resets that fit their state and sensory needs.
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No—these are practica, neurodiversity-affirming tools for home, school and beyond.
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Digital products and event tickets are non-refundable. We’ll honour remedies required by Canadian consumer protection laws (e.g., not delivered as described or event cancelled).
Really struggling to get started? Email erin@erintee.com for a free 15-minute quick-win call.